Please be courteous. negative and flashy and manuplative ppl are a NO GO!! One is a selfless but patient "planner" that never gets around to actually doing it/ doesn't want to ever start, and the other is a self-serving hot-blooded pursuer. All comments are moderated. I'm seventeen and an ENTJ girl. Thats the extroverted part of them, they do actually understand what interpersonalmeans, only that it comes second to themselves. but my friends think I am charming, intelligent and friendly but idk if they know that I choose them to gain something from them (hobbies, success), love to have meaningful conversation with like-minded ppl who won't beat arounf the bush. When I look at xNTJ eyes, even when you smile or laugh or try to project yourself as likable humans, I see nothing but self-loathing and anxiety. SOPHIA. I would NEVER tell someone to "stop thinking." Thats another part of their extroversion. Sagittarius(don't really use these). They can quickly become annoyed when they are reliant on other individuals. INTPs and ENTJs are cynical, critical, and love discussing high-level topics such as government, education, science, and spirituality. Haha, well yes, they seem to do. Literally i feel like in another planet. :) Sometimes I'm perceived to be such. Or a hobby for, say, astronomers who don't take astrology seriously My bf is entj and I literally told him you have to start acting like you don't care about what you're doing at work bc others were getting so jealous of him and trying to trip him up! The answer goes much deeper than their difference in intuition. In normal circumstances, I will probably ignore the commands as an INTP. My mother thinks I act and have a taste like a man. As I understand it: - ESTJs have the best sense of what is correct, until proven otherwise - INTJs are the "smartest"*, until proven otherwise IME that "default" sense is pretty common in both types -- and that can bother some people. Because of their inborn personality traits, ENTJs are often thought of as leaders. And as an ENTJ I am the most lihgten up worker in my team for an instance. Theyre the trendsetters and trendspotters, the ones who get the party started and the crowd hyped. special kind of life. I've been called cold and distant. What we're saying here is that an ENTJ functions best with a wing (wo)man. Psychology has a lot to say about mental illness, less to say about what mental health looks like, much less "abnormal but healthy." So I don't share or show them unless they pass some real tests inside. To add to this, I was in my mid-40s before I met her so my personality had a chance to mature on its own. I always looked down on the other girls, I saw them being freely emotional and thought it was weak. If not I will endanger you as a form of revenge." And not whinny as entp been describeds! In short, they are good in bed and not interested in one-night stands! And ya, a lot of women hate me too ? And he had wasted a great deal of my effort to correct the wrong judgment he had. I am a great friend of my dad, who is an ENTJ and my cousin, who is possibly my best friend is ENTJ. GIRL I AM AN ARIES AND ENTJ TOO AND I COMPLETELY!!!! What I'm getting at is that you shouldn't hide your personality type because other people don't like it. Which is why it's more confusing to find my true type! Traveller, there are no roads. The thing about what people do when they feel hate is not look at themselves. I'm also a capicorn and I give really good advice to my friends who aren't in a good mood. I have a love/hate relationship with the sheer forcefulness of their personality, it's kinda hot sometimes other times it just feels bossy and overbearing [probably when they're using it on me]. 100% agree. I have a great amount of education and when I say something to someone Im working with, it comes from experienceand data. I did try to fit in but when I stopped, I realized I can attract much better people and things in my life just being who I am.. I am wondering about being a Cancer and an ENTJ. I can't say I've ever had an experience where and ENTJ and myself got along great. As one who has long been aware of my ENTJ pros and cons, for me it is all one big cost-benefit analysis. 3-100% the same, apologize only to those who deserve it. Subservience is an ENTJ's kryptonite - they cannot NOT lead, which is why they have no problem stepping up to the plate to call the shots. 4-i hate them, I hate negative people, I hate pessimists, they are losers and are just waisting their lives. 2. It is because the environment does not allow us me to. INTPs and ENTJs are both intuitive thinkers, so their communication is excellent for the most part. But who cares? I am a female INFJ and my husband is ENTJ. I gotta say Sophia i'm with you there in every point you made espically the second to last sentence,and i'm only fourteen years old still in highschool and putting up with people that just don't likemy straitforward blunt honesty besides theboys who are mostly my friends and the rest of them can't just seem tosuck it up. And really, who wouldn't want one of these energetic, articulate, quick witted, out-of-the-box, competent, critical, heroic, playful, bewildering characters in their life? Heres The Truth. As an ENTJ, what do you think people "dislike" about you. Leo, ENTJ, woman. Its an excellent relationship for joint personal development. We see the bigger picture. INTPs are honest and straightforward. It can go against the INTPs moral compass the way ENTJs manipulate those around them to achieve their goals. You may not mean to sound like you're giving orders, but the INTP will probably hear it that way. I also know that just by saying that, I'm technically, "Too full of myself" and that I should lose my big head. Its their loss, and not up to us to change ourselves for their comfort. ENTJ here with a sun in leo n moon in virgo lol. If you are an ENTJ, read this book to begin your quest in learning why you act the way you do and how you can come to appreciate who you are as an individual. Non-reality living and mindsets simply haltprogress. Finally I also got to learn to love, be patient and have empathy. INTPs appreciate ENTJs precision and logical reasoning. Your everyday ENTJ does have an extrinsic locus of control. These personality types seek out new experiences and adventures wherever they are. INTPs are Thinkers and as such their Feeling function is quite weak. 1-I'd agree with having problem expressing my emotions but more so understanding them was the challenge. I am a Classic ENTJ. Seriously, ENTJs. They are very dominant in bed. But here's the thing, that only happens when they stop giving attention to their inner Fi(intraverted feeling-this is the psychologicalconcept that Jung talks about, all these are artices are pulling from the psychological work Jung has done). I expect everyone to acknowledge mistakes- I hold myself to that same standard. I do understand. INTPs and ISTPs possess many of the same personality characteristics. special kind of ending. I am ENTJ and I couldn't but relate to every single word you have described! There quite a few EMTJ Aries here. From my experience, that hasn't been true. Wisdom tells me I am nothing. The only way out is for him to reconnect with his extraverted thinking, usually in a dark corner away from prying eyes. I don't bring the fire, I am the fire.. lol. I'm 0-, ENTJ Aries female here with o- blood type. Truity offers a free personality test based on Myers and Briggs' types, but does not offer the official MBTI assessment. Cookie Notice Their efficiency. Im 61, just beat stage 4 cancer, and looking to rebuild a life with some good people as friends, kinda old to learn this truth, but Peterson says 1/3 sleeping, 1/3relationships, 1/3 work. I must say, your insight and intuition are glorious in this article. And yes, we are REALLY rare. You're know-it-alls and you believe your limited experience entitles you to opine on just about anything. Adversely, ENTJs are protective of their emotions, goal-oriented, hyper-focused, focused on solutions rather than problems, and fiercely independent. The easy way they assume leadership. If you don't schedule something it might never happen! ENFJs can help INTPs understand emotions (both their own and other people's). Both personalities are ambitious and willing to challenge the status quo. Things've gotten pretty exciting since and yes, I don't care much if they don't like me but funny fact is.. theye like me more that way so enjoy who you are.. I say this here, in this forum, because I am of the opinion that our group ( should) be " the ones" that do not form hasty judgement prior to making a full investigation on a matter - ps: There are many keys of ' self-revelation' can be found for ENTJ both in the Books of Esther and Jonah have fun! The primary difference between these two personality types is their focus. I merely want to ask why you as ENTJ (It was ENTJ, right?) It is no surprise to me that you are an INTJ. True leaders say sorry. Imagine an apple cut in half, both sides cut face up. Challenge me, but do not be a sissy about it. So - I dont fully buy into that aspect. INTPs can discuss personal issues because of how ENTJs see the world, and ENTJs can discuss their ideas because of how well INTPs interpret them and provide insight. But it's made me more self aware of who I am. On the male side of ENTJ you wont get the same bickering as women but you will get major passive aggressiveness and teammates that are scared of you for no reason. ENTJs and INTPs both have quality time and physical touch among their top three . ISTPs and ENTJs share some essential characteristics: They are direct and honest. I sometimes even take the consecquences over my shoulder and be proud of it. The ENTJ will deal with the high-profile strategy stuff that's important. Im not saying this from statistical proof but I would wager that the most highly successful ENTJs were liklyhighly successful because of an INTJat their side. Their logical thinking also makes them better suited to leadership positions because they can strategize and organize groups and instigate change. Being a girl in a male dominated academic school track is hard in the first place but honestly I love the challenge and knowing I'll come out on top is a fantastic feeling. Read More Can INFJs Be Self-Centered And Evil?Continue. From the MBTI perspective, the best match for ENTJs is deemed to be INTP. When shes not writing to a deadline, shes geeking out about personality psychology and conspiracy theories. This, I feel, goes against the very nature of the time-sensitive "get things done and improve" nature of ENTJ. Im a virgo ENTJ female and I also have to change my attitude with my friend but I still look rude and scary to them -_- and because of getting so much criticism from people im starting to become little introverted which i dont want to be. However, there are some differences between these two personality types: INTPs have a more substantial interest in theoretical subjects, while ENTJs have a more action-oriented mind. I have to say this is real. I base my decisions on thought and statistics/data. If you are looking for an exciting partnership with an insatiable craving for intimacy, ENTJs are all that and much more. Because I wanted to be like them. Because we are now going to cover in-depth what INTPs like and dislike about ENTJs. I think INTP and ENTJ works well together because the INTP is a logical and rational thinker, and the ENTJ is an artistic doer. You may want to explore that possibility for your own typing, as this comment provides much more evidence of Aux/Ter Si/Ne than Ni/Se. While I may be focused on the bigger picture 99% of the time I am very meticulous about crossing my T's and dotting my I's when I'm planning something. In my career change, the stress turned me into someone I'm not and I made a decision that I regret to this day. Seems that there are just so many ways to make an ENTJ. Some look for a co-hero, someone that is on the exact same track as you, with similar goals and aspirations. ENTJs, like INTPs, see the logic in telling the truth and would avoid . If you like to tell others what to do you are bossy. And both type share similar traits and behavior! While I think Elizabeth is more likely an INTP/INTJ hybrid than an ENTJ, she still has the curious mind and logical, big-picture insight that all NT personality types strive to have. You need to start your own business, or you will never realize your trueself, or potential. I keep my ideas for myself, becaus she does not deserve them. The Fora platform includes forum software by XenForo, VerticalScope Inc., 111 Peter Street, Suite 600, Toronto, Ontario, M5V 2H1, Canada. INTPs and ENTJs are cynical, critical, and love discussing high-level topics such as government, education, science, and spirituality. Lord knows the others are not. For the ENTJ personality type, goals, achievements and ambition are some of the most important parts of their life. This has earned ENTJs the repuation of hating INTPs. (My art project plans are way too grandiose for my own good.). It's clear that I shouldn't work for someone else. Being the same, Sagittarius and ENTJ well.. Once you master your emotions as an ENTJ, you are unstoppaple to perfection. When I express a belief , I qualify it by saying it is my perspective and not subject to your condemnation. ENTJ The ENTJ loves a goal, something to run at and they will excel at making sure other people are just as enthused and . But as much as I like ENTJs, I couldn't eat a whole one . INTP and ENFJ personalities are Intuitive; they prefer to focus on the future and think abstractly. While these personality types can have their difficulties, it doesnt mean that they cant work well together. Every single woman in the world, no matter the culture and background, will be drawn to ENTJ types. I have struggled with weaker, less dominate superiors throughout my career. INTPs aren't natural planners while ENTJs like to organize things in advance which can be challenging. How to Integrate The Fool Archetype Into Your Life. INTP The INTP does not like too much detail, preferring a broad-brush stroke approach. Their strengths are in different places is all.. ENTJ Female Cancer here. Ugh, it's a blessing and a curse that we are so rare. Real ENTJs don't believe in horoscopes, pretend to be someone else, or whine about either. I'm in college, and the way most of my peers think, the attitudes they have, it's just weird, "I'm in college, and the way most of my peers think, the attitudes they have, it's just weird", To an INTP, 'weird' often means 'interesting to study.' You can find more information about the five love languages here. I'm 22 and an ENTJ. An ENTJ is the last kind of man that I would want. They can become focused on the emotion of a situation rather than the situation itself. Complaining, blaming, shaming and whining carries no weight with them. Same thing this is not related to ENTJ. ENTJs account for less than 3 percent of the general population, but among women, it's the rarest personality type. I have to agree, sometimes I can't even pinpoint the source of these intense emotions, and I just feel out of my element. INTP personality types, however, are more carefree and can often have a light-hearted approach. Its true, female coworker hates me. And trust me, I agree with you. They have a hard time connecting to the feelings of others, and can become uneasy around them. They are not likely to give up on an idea they are motivated to complete. These signs prize originality and like to be first in everything they do. ENFJ -INFP relationships. My husband is a ENFP, although he adores and admires my strength, most of our couple friends clearly love him more. These two personalities share a love for science and facts. But as I am an ENTJ and both my best friend and my boyfriend's of 8 years are both INTJs I am going to have to disagree with you in regards to how you believe that Entj/Intj relationships are negative. We all know males can be a little different in how they approach details and their feelings than females. <3, My name is NOT Mercedes, but I am a Aries and ENTJ. Its like my teenager voice came back again. Weve compiled a brief list of reasons that may explain why ENTJs often hate INTP personality types. And who should apologize for trying too hard? ENFJs are often drawn to INTPs' independence, creativity, and calm way of dealing with crisis. No two personalities are identical. Have a great rest of your day! All the weaknesses you have described above i truely related to all of them, but my test results shows I'm an entp! And, at 53% Introverted, 47% Extraverted, my own personality is running dangerously close to the ENTJ cliff edge. At the same time, INTPs may focus on how the situation has played out. You're so business intelligence-focused, you forget to derobotize yourself every once in a while and experience life outside of corporate hell. Idlove to resolve this dilemma and would appreciate feedback. (As well as my perceiption of that, I supposed you missed the reference =( (Doctor Who). These signs start every seasonAries kicks off spring, Cancer starts summer, Libra begins fall and Capricorn is the first winter sign. Thats life we complete each other. Now I am reconnecting with myself and honestly, I could give two **** about how they perceive me or getting people to "like" me. Anyway, stop negatively perceiving personalities. Most of them at least. As an male ENTJ, I want the female ENTJs to know and understand that we adore you like a breath of fresh air. But in my experience, ENTJs are even more protective of their emotions than their Introverted cousins. She told me that was the meanest thing anyone's ever said to her and I was thinking I gave her a compliment. Blimey. INFJs are introverts and require their solitude to function. I feel very misunderstood in terms of motivation a lot as my head definitely works with the idea of helping groups thrive. Therefore, you habor much bitterness and you tend to lash out against anything that conflicts with your idealized image and/or evokes egodystonic dissonance. Guess thats an ENTJ thing. INTJs and ENTJs never good in relationship to begin with! I do not think another ENTJ and I would be able to work shoulder to shoulder, but I have has success with INFPs in the past, and in my marriage. They need to bring other people down so they feel good about themselves. Same here. Here is Why (+Tips to Improve), Taurus Sun Pisces Moon: Artistic Intuition, Taurus Sun Aquarius Moon: True Feelings Of Rebellion. INTPs inspire ENTJs to be more relaxed on a day-to-day basis while ENTJs motivate INTPs to come up with concrete plans. There are certain things about them that justrub people up the wrong way. Lighten up about this? I TELL YOU THIS. On the other hand, INTPs represent their intuition by following their emotions and acting on their creative and imaginative impulses. I only execute her orders, which is obviously all she wants. Cancer ENTJ here as well thought I had not seen another Cancer post here but was wrong. Yep, everything was a flaw and fakery until I reconnected with my inner child. Other than that, everything else is great for us. I personally used to be like this. I do think I am nice and personable, but my blind spot is not nice and personable enough for others. Hope I didn't confuse anyone too badly. #9 There is a distinction between quickly acting strategically and being impulsive. Mostly not everyone hating ENTJs because of the superiority or that the ENTJ failed to live up the expectation. There's no need for you to rub it in. I might just not so subtly forward this article to everyone I know Not a bad idea. INTPs enjoy it when ENTJs show patience towards them. You're basically ESTJs in disguise; you think you're macro-managing something, but you're trivial, you suffer from OCD, and you're just big, bloated fish in a small pond. Theyreincredibly self-willedpeople, but they do know we cant always keep to ourselves and get things done, and they know how to exert themselves in a context, even if theyre not doing so in another context. ? I did the same thing but went into crash mode trying to please others. At their best, the INTP + ENTJ combo is unstoppable. The main problem people have with it is that you can take it one time and get a different answer than the next time, but people's presonalities change, and if you put in same/similar answers you're going to get the same type. Social interactions and overstimulation can cause them to become highly overwhelmed. Their hard-working and ambitious nature. Attention to detail / focus. Sorry CAN be a hard thing to say but ONLY to those who are untrained in emotional intelligence. I'm deeply passionate about people and their complex personalities. I am really into personality and void typings and I wonder your blood type? ENTJs are highly independent and believe that everyone is responsible for their own fate in life. #5. In the end it just kind of manifests as having to put on a different face at work/ school. I've never felt more at home than I do right now reading this comment section. We seem to be read as cold or indifferent but I don't feel that way at all. I am extremely kind and friendly, but my perosnal feeling is speaking at funeral is different than addressing a conflict or inatructing someone at work or calling out peoples errors. They dont have to carefully package their words for fear of hurting someone. I'm and ENTJ woman and Ireally feel like this. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. I hope it's not coming off too creepy, just not quite ready to give up a hope. Answer (1 of 4): As an ENTJ, what I like most about INTPs is their ability to entertain ideas. INTPs are attracted to the friendly, empathetic, and open nature of ENFJs. Anyways, Astrology has no factual basis or any evidence of accuracy. They also want to strategize on how to get their work done effectively. Actually I have a co-worker who is ENTJ and he is very good at doing certain things to make sure he fits in/gets along/gets more powerful. Tell me when you think I am wrong and offera solution, and I will respect you. I have struggled with not fitting in with anyone since I was 5. ~Me. Come join the discussion about health, behavior, care, testing, personality types, and more! Some INTPs pursue a partner that is like a soulmate, while other people are looking for a best friend. A friendly, informative space where everyone can come together, learn, discover, and celebrate what makes us who we are. You're know-it-alls and you believe your limited experience entitles you to opine on just about anything. no, none of us can relate [] I'm quite interested and attracted to the idea of an ENTJ. I am a giving, kind, considerate person. JavaScript is disabled. I'm an ENTJ. I'm very forward with how I feel and I have 0 problem with telling anyone where I stand. My name isn't Mercedes but I'm a Saggittarius ENTJ and will only drive a Mercedes lmao. I like their ambition, their drive, their competence and the confidence especially. How do you know youe teacher was an ENTJ?? Agree. The best thing we can do for ourselves as ENTJs is to own our power! Full disclosure: I'm married to an ENTJ (according to the 16-type personality system developed by Isabel Briggs Myers). Their natural instinct to lead will be apparent in this arena as well as other areas of life, and they will lead their partner on creative lovemaking adventures, where the focus is on mutual learning and affection sharing. If you aren't making mistakes you aren't trying hard enough. ENTJs are totally willing to pay any price in order to win. INTPs may become borderline stalkerish in an attempt to maximize the opportunities for interaction with . You must bow down to me because of that and no complaining. muahaha. Their open-minded nature lends itself to being able to see both sides of an argument or disagreement easily, making them an objective party in their mediation. Hi, I am taurus ENTJ, my inlaws family is full of ESFJ. An ENTJ might not mean to come across as bossy and sharp, it's just so hard to pull those punches. The INTP does not do that. I actually have to pretend to be someone else around co workers because they will hate me because my drive and just being me. Nice to meet ya. Youll see them often in their best and their worstmoods thanthe average ones, as stress (both manic and depressive)activates their underdeveloped Fi, giving them a turbulent impression indeed, much to their resentment. ENTJs often express their intuition by following their instincts in leadership and organizational practices. Although ESFJs are not typically considered a creative personality type, many examples of ESFJs have gone on to be successful musicians and/or artists. Holding yourself back for security and comfort will consume your ENTJ souless soul. INTPs appreciate ENTJs ability to lead and get things done. It will be only power rivalry with "you must loyal to me because I am good with you. INFJs can be evil when they lack emotional maturity. It may not display this or other websites correctly. ENTPs show their goofy and lighthearted sides to the world. I wish to become the best version of myself and inspire others to do the same along the way. I can generally describe the relationship with the top 3. 8sx. Works better with a geocentric model, but oh well. ENTJs rely on their own thoughts, opinions, and feelings. I also dim my own light, masking who I truly am, at work to seem more 'likeable/approachable' because my peers have told me since I was 5-years old that I'm"too bossy.". Everything, repeat everything, is approached like a business decision. ENTJs are very protective of their emotions and have a more extroverted approach. Not because I want that role but because groups need leadership, even if it ends up being temporary. However, can at times be challenging. In his 55 years on Earth, he reinvented the Roman army, changed the calendar, conquered Gaul, made a stab at Britain, rose through the ranks to become the most powerful man in Rome, mitigated a financial crisis, gave land to around 20,000 poor families and precipitated the collapse of the Republican government. Actually from what I know I'm the only woman in the southeast United State that do what I do, and would like to say I'm damn good at it. Sexuality is another important area which brings out the Fe shadow of the INTP. Read More Do ISTPs Like To Argue?Continue. I am over 50 years old, she is younger. Because their TE is not regarded as much as the ENTJ supreme boss ego. I'm an ENTJ-A scorpio and feel misunderstood by everyone around me. ISTPs are prone to arguing and may even enjoy arguing but dont argue for fun. However, it is nice that we can have a community of ENTJs where yall will understand our way of thinking and lifestyle! I am highly educated in a highly tech icalprofession. Mainstream psychology says MBTI is pseudoscience, but I've found it useful, mainly because it gives a way of understanding different people as "differently healthy."
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